The Other Personal Stuff about Will


4  Jul, 2010

Other sites by this author:
Save Canada’s Last Wild Mustangs

My American Neighbours

The other personal stuff about Will:

EDUCATION: Ba political science (Simon Fraser U. /94); Post-baccalaureate Certificate journalism Langara Polytechnic University /95)

LANGUAGES: English & Spanish (fluent); French ( tourist level ); Italian (barely tourist level : “Dove è il bagno?”)

I was an unhappily adopted child. Total F —-n’ bleeding MISERY. Life in Hell! Marilyn Manson endured an unhappy adoption as a kid. He titled his autobiography: My Life: The Long Hard Road Back From Hell .” BOY, do I identify with THAT!  See this article :Psychological Issues Faced by Adopted Children and Adults.“]

When I bring up in conversation the pain inflicted by my miserable adoption, people generally try to close the conversation down. This is not helpful. As psychologist Leslie Becker-Phelps, PhD , writes in her article The Art of Relationships: Understanding The Ghosts of a Traumatic Chidhood: “The first reaction people often have to learning about someone’s traumatic past (or to thinking about their own) is to say they should just leave it in the past where it belongs; in other words, “forget about it…It’s true that the events happened long ago, but the pain continues because the damages that they caused the person were never tended to; so the person’s psyche never healed or healed the wrong way, much like can happen to a broken bone. The main difference is that, unlike with a bone, we can’t physically see a damaged psyche.

Well, life can be hard. But I Got MY Just Desserts: In 1993, after an Adoption Search using all of my own acquired investigative skills as a news reporter,  I located and was happily reunited with my intact, entire birth family. How LUCKY was THAT! In 2009 I finally disowned my adoptive family. I executed a Legal Name Change back to my birth name. Feel much better now.


Boys & girls! Did you know that all that acid …you know… L.S.D.’, … ‘lysergic acid ditheylimide[for all you Gen-X'ers, Tweeners, Y-Gens, etc. etc. out there] … we dropped all those years ago was actually GOOD for us?? Go read this : Is LSD Good For You? AND check out how : Cary Grant was dropping acid in the 50s !

Heh heh! Do you remember Alice ?

Go ask herI think she’ll know



One pill makes you larger
And one pill makes you small
And the ones that mother gives you
Don’t do anything at all
Go ask Alice
When she’s ten feet tall

And if you go chasing rabbits
And you know you’re going to fall
Tell ‘em a hookah smoking caterpillar
Has given you the call
Recall Alice
When she was just small

When men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go
And you’ve just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving low
Go ask Alice
I think she’ll know

When logic and proportion
Have fallen softly dead
And the White Knight is talking backwards
And the Red Queen’s “off with her head!”
Remember what the dormouse said:
“Feed your head
Feed your head
Feed your head

Lyric White Rabbit” /AKA Go Ask Alice by Gracie Slick, of  the rock group Jefferson Airplane.
One of Grace Slick’s earliest songs, written during either late 1965 or early 1966, it includes comparisons of the hallucinatory effects of psychedelic drugs such as Magic Mushrooms with the imagery found in the fantasy works of Lewis Carroll.
Slick has stated that White Rabbit was a response towards parents who asked why their children were taking drugs. According to her, books that parents would read to their children, such as “Alice in Wonderland,” encouraged them to experiment with substances since surreal and colorful imagery was often used.

I live in  Greater Vancouver,  on the Lower Mainland coast of  British Columbia, Canada.  I HATE &  LOATHE our  weather here. Rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain. Then some more rain. Then some more rain, just to be sure. ➩ oh, except now that we’ve got climate change happening here big time,  sometimes the weather goes totally freaky! Like for instance, summer-in-the-winter – and vice versa. Not exactly paradise!..


We had the 2010 Big Winter Olympics BLOW-OUT here. [It didn't snow ! How do you have a winter Olympics with no snow??] As far as I’m concerned, the CLIMAX of the whole big deal was Canadian singer k.d. lang’s awesome performance of the Leonard Cohen song Hallelujah at the Olympics Opening Ceremonies. Here is the closest thing to the professional video you can find on the web so far [excellent audio/video tonal depth - but zoomed-out, wide pan, a bit shakey] : iTunes has the real thing for sale – worth every penny!  If k.d. doesn’t send shivers up and down yer spine, you got no soul, man!

WHERE  I  VACATION :

Mexico. The Mexican Riviera is Paradise on Earth. My secretRiviera‘ destination is beautiful beyond your wildest dreams.Screw hideous, over-priced Cancun, Puerto Vallarta, Mazatlan, etc! They all are so over-rated. I won’t reveal my special ‘Riviera’ hideaway, sorry. Keeping it to myself. But I will later show you lots of photos of this fabulous locale on this blog.

Palms and ‘palapas’

Beachfront open air dining palapa – genuine thatched roof!

Please check back here periodically for more fabulous vacation pics on The Mexican Riviera.

Early morning Poolside

The resort zoom foto from across the bay

Beachside “palapa”

Coming in from another spectacular snorkel session. emerald green waves. Saw Blue Tangs, YellowTangs, urchins, small manta ray

snorkeling on by…

Evr’ybody Got Sumthin’ to Hide ‘Xcept For Me an’ my Minkey!

DAMN Paparrazi!

Ahh…just look at that blue water!

Ferry terminal

Comments
  1. patricemj says:

    I like the comment you made of the “my blog stat is giving me the finger”. I’m glad you’re here on WP telling your story…we need all sides and the group thinker can just F-themselves. peace, patrice

  2. Ashley says:

    Hi Will,

    My name is Ashley and I found your post linking to your blog on the Aneurysm & AVM support page. I’m so incredibly sorry to hear about what you’ve endured and can only begin to imagine how this impacts your life every day.

    My mother suffered from an undetected ruptured aneurysm around 10 years ago when I was in high school. I became her primary caregiver and emotional supporter. The hardest thing, as you say repeatedly, is that nobody—very few people could see her disability. In fact, she herself couldn’t, at least not fully. Her personality had shifted, her moods and responses were unpredictable, and she seemed like an entirely different person. I tried to respond accordingly, but she didn’t understand how she was different and why everyone was treating her like they were walking on eggshells.

    I’m amazed at your ability—perhaps because as a journalist and filmmaker you’re used to documenting subtlety?—to note the changes you’ve experienced.

    I’m currently working on an article for my master’s degree at Columbia and then plan to pitch it to ABC News where I work. I think very few patients and families are prepared for what to expect and how to cope beyond any physical changes. I can’t tell you how much I would like to speak with you about what you’ve experienced, from the inside. It would mean a great deal to me personally, in terms of trying to better understand and support my mother, and in terms of working on an article which can hopefully help survivors and families at a broader level.

    Please be in touch in the next few days if you can. You can reach me at this email.

    Thanks so much; take care. I hope to hear from you soon.

    Best,
    Ashley

  3. marylee says:

    hi will, i’m from the avm/brain anneurysm site…you say lots of heavy duty things..i don’t like thoughts sugar coated..so hats off to you. i’m a brain hemmorhage/avm surgery survivor. isn’t it all just a load of laughs. today, at my incision site..the pain is excruciating..weather related..oh and stress too..i can barely move my head; 9 years post op..my song is…the lunatic is in my head; unlock the door , and throw away the key, there’s someone in my head and it’s not me. take care. thanks for the honesty. marylee arnold page 5 under avm

  4. Hi Will. this is from a fellow BA survivor. I got your email yesterday and today, 12/31/10 I’m looking at your site. “VERY GOOD” I can see that you are doing ok, as far as the ruptured aneaurysm goes, and it looks like you are holding your own.
    This site is my main aneurysm site: http://brain-aneurysm-survivor.blogspot.com/ I’ll put your link on it in just a bit.

    Luck to you
    RT…

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